Reading through my entries people would think I am a sad human being. I have been yakking away about having no friends and being depressed several times on my blog. Imagine a person who has no friends? Isn't that the epitome of sadness? But then again, can anybody please define what a friend is?
Friends serve its purpose. It may sound brutal but its a reality for me. Can you relate to this?
a) A talker - This is a friend who blabs away anything and everything. If you're bored and in need of a human company, this is the best person to go to. You don't even have to respond to anything they say. Be warned though that five minutes into the (one-sided) conversation, you'd have to force yourself to stay awake.
b) A listener - The opposite of the talker. If you want to vent your frustrations, here's the best person. I personally like this kind of friend because I have so much emotional and psychological baggage I need to dump. Here's the catch though. You'd have to slap him to get a reaction.
c) Secret-keeper - Personally, I don't have this kind of friend. It's not that I don't trust anybody (bleh) but my secret is my secret. Think of blackmail.
d) Bubbly - Who wants a miserable friend, right? Of course everybody wants to be with Ms. Bubbly. The world is full of roses and sweet aromas when you're with her. Makes you think of lollipops and cotton candies.
e) User - Don't you have a friend just like this? Oh, how I would love to elaborate but I'd rather not. I am pretty sure, you have one at your side. LOL
f) Compassionate - This is my personal best. Motherly love wrapped in friendship. Gives you a warm fuzzy feeling. When everything seems dark and cold, it's nice to have a friend like this.
g) Competitive - Whatever-you-have, I-can-get-and-more kind of friend. Or I-am-better-than-you-in-whatever-you're-doing kind of friend. This is a friend who thinks friendship is a competition. It's always a one-upmanship game with him. Competition is good for the soul but it doesn't suit me. I have a fairly competitive genes in my bones. LOL.
Did I miss anything? Feel free to add a type of friend you are =)
4 comments:
hey, josiet, talking about me?
haha.
Musta? This is a good post.
Teka, saan ba ako don ha? WINK
hi ate francesca (if i may call you that?)!
Thanks, inspired lang ako magsulat.
I think you belong to the "funny" kind of friend pero nakalimutan ko ilagay. Nakakaaliw at natatawa ako lagi everytime Iread your blog! =)
parang wala ako sa pagpipilian hehehe yong insane friend, yong lahat ng sinasabi puro kabaliwan hehehe..basta ang masasabi ko lang
I am here for you, always here for you
When you need a shoulder to cry on
Someone to rely on, I am here for you
thank u & jaja for i know you guys really care bout me
i never thought of you as insane. funny pa :D
..and thanks mare!
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