Do you tell your husband/partner everything?I am afraid I do. I tell my hubby every little mundane thing that happened to me or caught my fancy. I am not sure if this is healthy or not.
I live by the code "Communication is the key to a great Marriage". So I always engage hubby in conversations even in small talk. I always ask him how his day at the office was. And in return I always tell him everything that happened in my day or what I was thinking that day.
Hubby is a good listener (so am I..hehe). I guess that's the reason that I always tell him everything.
But more so, I guess it's because I don't have anyone else to talk to aside from EJ of course.
Lately however all I do is rant and rant. I know he still listens but I saw a flicker in his eyes that says "that's enough". Of couse I cannot blame him. It must be irritating listening to the same kind of rant everyday.
Now I am thinking "does hubby think I am turning into a bad person?" Well, actually I did ask him that (hehehe..couldn't help myself). He said, "of course not!"
I still couldn't help it, I still tell hubby everything. But is this really healthy to a marriage? Shouldn't there be a little mystery between couples?
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4 comments:
I also tell Bee anything and everything that I can think of. Heck, I even tell him WHO i fancy. Hahaha!
And if it would make you feel better, I also rant and rant and rant some more especially if I'm stressed out with Sean. Kahit nasa kliyente pa sya, when I'm frustrated with Sean, I sms or call him to rant.
Then he'd say, "Ako na bahala kay Sean mamaya. Pahinga ka na lang." Thank God! Hahaha! Bratty wife, noh?
In my opinion, it's ok to rant (ahem! Nag.), because it'd keep me sane. If I supress what I feel, baka matagal ko ng iniwan tong dalawa. Hahaha! No joke.
There are just times na napupuno din tayo, eh. Wala kasi tayong ibang outlet. Wala tayong ka-kwentuhan. Monotonous kasi buhay ng mga SAHM. Sometimes, we need a break from the monotony.
Hahaha! Pareho talaga tayo sis. Cguro if neighbors tayo, wala tayo magawa puro lang tayo daldal. COme to think of it, baka gusto nyo lumipat dito sa KL? LOL.
i agree with you communication is the key to a great marriage. honesty and transparency develop trust. and when there's trust, you can go a long long way. i enjoyed reading this post.
btw,--- i haven't seen my pr yet... and i'm quite excited. hopefully nga meron na. para maincrease din earnings ko. hehehe.
I agree, a good line of communication is a big factor in any relationship. I also tell my husband everything. I like sharing things with him.
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